What will life coaching do for me?

Every person has their own aspirations and dreams, some people are crippling unaware of them whereas some people have had them mapped out for years.

My job as a life coach is to help you to help yourself get closer to those goals until you achieve them.

But with so many different people with entirely different things that they want, how can I possibly help them all in the same way?

Decisions decisions

We are all a result of our own decisions.

Every single decision we have made in our lives has led us to where we are in life right now.

Your instant response to this might be that other people’s decisions have also had an impact on where your life is and, yes, you’re absolutely right.

BUT

You never had any control over other people’s decisions anyway.

Life coaching and mindset change with GYST coaching is all about ensuring that you always make the next right decision for yourself. This may possibly seem an overly simplistic view of life but what is life if it isn’t a series of circumstances in which you have to decide what to do next?

The worst decisions we make for ourselves are typically the ones which are tied in with some form of emotion. 

Hence the expression “never make a decision in anger, never make a promise in happiness” this can be extended across all negative emotions.

Let’s say that someone has done something that has hurt you, the initial thought can be to try and balance the scales – “an eye for an eye”.

This is completely understandable, we’ve been hurt by someone, why shouldn’t we hurt them back?
However “An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind”

How has hurting them back improved your situation? 

Have you served out justice? 

Are you proud of your actions? 

Would you have done what you did unprovoked?

This final question is the biggest one. If you are doing something that you wouldn’t have done unprovoked then you’ve allowed someone else to make a decision that you’re not happy or comfortable with.

Life coaching will help you identify what your core values are, these are things which will guide you with everything that you say and do.

It will also help you set your boundaries, the red lines which people simply cannot cross and you’ll defend resolutely.

With cast iron boundaries and clear core values you are in the perfect position to make perfect decisions for yourself.

Each perfect decision will move you closer to your goals whether that’s a Lamborghini or a treehouse in the forest or anything else inbetween.

If you’re interested in finding out more about life coaching with GYST then the form below is your next step.